tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5528821463224803022.post4326643240063766388..comments2023-07-20T00:51:01.505-07:00Comments on My Girlfriend is an Escort: Our Nine LivesHhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05425295204517227121noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5528821463224803022.post-17586711185946437602009-01-19T21:37:00.000-08:002009-01-19T21:37:00.000-08:00Hey E.*Thanks for stopping by and commenting.I und...Hey E.*<BR/><BR/><BR/>Thanks for stopping by and commenting.<BR/><BR/>I understand it was probably weird and confusing to hear that your girlfriend used to be an escort.<BR/><BR/>But on the one hand, if she's not doing it anymore, I guess you don't need to worry that much about it. I consider that things that are in the past are not that relevant. I sort of cannot judge anything G. did before meeting me. It's like there's a proscription on it.<BR/><BR/>Of course it's something that defined her back then, and probably still defines the person she is right now (though it may define her as an opposite to what she used to be, maybe). I consider it's a good thing to know about your partner's past, but that you should make a clear distinction between what it means for her (everything) and for you (sort of nothing, actually).<BR/><BR/>It's the same any judicial system: once you've served your sentence, you are and should be regarded as as white as snow.<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>But still, it's confusing.<BR/><BR/>All best, and don't hesitate to stop by again.<BR/><BR/>(And if she doesn't want to talk about it, don't push it. Just try to be understanding, you cannot possibly have any clue of what she went through).<BR/><BR/><BR/>Cheers.<BR/><BR/>*<BR/>(hope not too many join up on that naming convention, or identifying ourselves will get fairly tricky quite fast... ;-) )Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05425295204517227121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5528821463224803022.post-4955677533651332482009-01-19T15:43:00.000-08:002009-01-19T15:43:00.000-08:00Hi H,You can call me E. I've been dating a girl fo...Hi H,<BR/>You can call me E. I've been dating a girl for 7 months now. About a month ago she told me she used to be an escort. She doesn't do it regularly anymore but it was weird hearing that even though i suspected it since we met. It's so refreshing to read a blog by someone in a similar situation because i can't really talk to anyone about this.Ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03859405987053368847noreply@blogger.com